Samuel

Samuel Watkins

11 4 09

I asked for a rant to see where he would go. He responded with this.

Marriage starts as a relation ship first. You might know some one for a long time I have known my wife 18 years been seeing her 10 married 3.
It is important for a marriage to work, and you have to know them in and out, and their family too. I have children, I never thought about having children especially with my wife. But when I moved in with her, before we married we discussed children and I said no. After living with her for a year I started thinking about having children. I got to know how she works and really understood a woman. I never lived with a woman other than my mother, until I moved in with my girlfriend at the time. I now understand how smart a woman can be by actually sitting down and listening to my wife and listen to her every day. Now that we have kids I feel our marriage is complete. We have a stable relationship and stable relationship equals stable minds. Now we have focus and also learn to focus on our kids.

Is marriage dead?

No! well uh, my parents were married, I feel if you know that person as well as I know my wife and my wife is headache at times but the key is I know my wife so I know how to get around all the negativity especially now that she is pregnant.